Nitty Gritty Hubby Is Back. (I can't believe I just referred to myself as that)

Please tell me where my wife has gone. It all started a little over a month ago, when I decided to purchase a new car. When I say purchase you must realize that my wife is a charter and only member for the Ferlaak family security council, meaning she has veto power. This power usually gets exercised often. As I decided to purchase this vehicle and was about to call my wife to get the official approval, I hearkened back to a memory from several years ago when a former boss was in a similar situation. After he test drove a new car he called his wife for approval, which turned into a veto, he then said, "nothing life a wife to ruin all your hopes and dreams." Much to my surprise she said to do it, and then she showed no buyers remorse for my purchase (she is usually the queen of buyers remorse).
Strange event number two occur ed when I proposed a trip with my buddies to celebrate all of our turning 40, this was also met with approval, sort of.
Strange event number three occurred this morning when our basement sewage pump went out leaving our carpet wet and the pump in need of replacement. There was no anger, no "just my life's". I felt like the Grinch when after he took all the presents, he heard the Who's in Whoville singing.
Please, if anyone has seen my wife, tell her to stay away:)